Today has been an extremely painful day! A year ago we added a pup to our family. When we brought her home it was our intent that she would be part of our family for many years. We imagined her being with us when JT left for college. I took her everywhere with me - school, park, playdates, parties. I wanted to socialize her and I wanted to have a pup that I could take with me and not worry about. About 8 months ago we started to notice that she was extremely insecure and aggressive when people came over. We worried that maybe we had missed the opportunity to train her. We started training her in January and learned that her temperament is genetic. She is an insecure dog with aggression and protective nature. We worked with amazing trainers, but they felt like we were coming closer to having to remove her from our family. When my father-in-law would come over, Lulu would bark and pretty much try to attack him. Jeff said that we needed to start looking for a new home for her. Last night, after most of the people left from JT's party, we brought her out on a leash (of course) and she snapped at friend. Jeff and I realized that we needed to get rid of her. So, today, I packed her up while the kids were at school and took to my friend's house. My amazing friend has grown up with Boxer's and understands their temperament. She has a friend who rehabilitates dogs and she currently has a boxer, Millie, that needed a playmate. My friend agreed to take her and love on her! Although my heart aches and I am extremely sad (tears coming down my face as I write this), I know that Lulu (who's new name is June) will be in a home much better suited for her. I am grateful that God opened the door for her to have a home. My kids have been crying all day and are aching over this. Oh, how I wish I could be the only one crying. But, it's a testament to how much we love her and how much she was part of our family. Our house is quiet and I know there is a void, but I also know it's what was best for everyone. If you are reading this and you think of us, please pray for our family as we are truly grieving the loss of our pup, but thankful for June's new home.
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Praying for your family! Such a hard thing to do but your kid's safety comes first. How great that June is in a loving home. You did the right thing even though it hurts so much.
I feel your pain as it hits really close to home for me! We got a staffy pup and about 2 months after we got her she came down with parvo. We faught long and hard with her and she made it through however as weak as she was when she came home every day that she got stronger she got more agressive(I guess it hapens with dogs with parvo)with our other dog whom she just adored before getting sick. When she got back on her feet she started to go after our other dog. We had to seperate them and she slept inside in her kennel at night. My son came into the room and she charged with a full growl and moved her kennel about 8 feet trying to get to him. Before this they were best friends. My husband made several calls to trainers to see if there was any hope of saving her but with her having had parvo they all said she needed to be put down that there was no way of bringing her back! My hubby had to take her as I was so close to her(parvo is like haveing Chrons which I have) so I know what she faught through to make it. She will always be a part of me just like LuLu is to all of you so I understand first hand how all of you are feeling and I feel your pain. Best wishes and prayers to your family!!
Oh Dai... my heart is breaking for you all. I'm crying as I write this. Loved that little Lulu. I pray for strength and healing for your family. This is not going to be easy, but we all know time heals all wounds. Sounds like Lulu will not go without love and attention. I'm so happy you found her a good home, and that will help ease your pain. If you ever need a crazy dog to feel your void I will drop Sammy off anytime. :) Will keep you in my prayers.
Oh wow. How sad. I know your pain. When I was little, we had a little dog, Toki but had to give it away after a few months. It was so sad. I know Lulu was a big part of the family but this is a good decision. We will pray for you guys.
Oh my I am so so sad for everyone. It's so hard to love something so much and do what's best for them, even if that means living with another family. We will be thinking of you today. My heart aches with you. I am 1000% certain you did everything right to give her the best chance at being part of your family. Hugs for everyone xxxooo
I know how you feel Daiana, I'm so sorry for you and your family. It is so hard to let go of any pet, you are so lucky to have a good place to send her though and you definitely did the right thing. Lots of Love, Hillary
Thinking of you and the kids...
Oh I'm so sorry Dai! I know that is such a hard decision for you! I know the countless hours you've put into trying to train her and get her more comfortable in certain settings. I'm sure the kiddos are sad too. love you!!
Sweet Mama,
You make the best decisions you can for your family --- we brought home sibling puppies...and after almost two years found a new mommy for one. He is the love of her life and ours is better for it, as well. I understand your anguish. We are certainly saying prayers of healing for your sweet family.
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Ugh. I feel your pain. When we had to find Rocky a new home it was for many of the same reasons as you have. We just had to do it much sooner because in addition to the aggression, we also didn't have enough space living in an apartment to let him let out enough energy even with walks/runs everyday. I remember coming home after giving him over to a sweet lady with Boxer Rescue who needed a playmate for her Boxer so she could train both, and I just broke down! It's so hard to give our pups away!
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